Wednesday, August 26, 2009

Allow your children to be SUCCESSFUL.

Your children.......They come through you but not from you.
Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
and though they are with you, and yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love, but not your thoughts.
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,f
or their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward, nor tarries with yesterday.
K. Gibran

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

GIVE SUCCESS TO YOUR CHILDREN

Children Learn What They Live
By Dorothy Law Nolte
, Ph.D., (1924-2005)
If children live with criticism, they learn to condemn.
If children live with hostility, they learn to fight.
If children live with fear, they learn to be apprehensive.
If children live with pity, they learn to feel sorry for themselves.
If children live with ridicule, they learn to feel shy.
If children live with jealousy, they learn to feel envy.
If children live with shame, they learn to feel guilty.
If children live with encouragement, they learn confidence.
If children live with tolerance, they learn patience.
If children live with praise, they learn appreciation.
If children live with acceptance, they learn to love.
If children live with approval, they learn to like themselves.
If children live with recognition, they learn it is good to have a goal.
If children live with sharing, they learn generosity.
If children live with honesty, they learn truthfulness.
If children live with fairness, they learn justice.
If children live with kindness and consideration, they learn respect.
If children live with security, they learn to have faith in themselves and in those about them.
If children live with friendliness, they learn the world is a nice place in which to live.

Monday, August 3, 2009

YOU CAN !

YOU CAN !

Dear Friends.It is really very blissful to meet you in the month of August to share some of the secrets of achieving Great achievements in life. Success is very easy for any one.Friends as Denis Waitley rightly mentioned

If you think you can, you can,

You have the potential to achieve anything and everything. But the precondition for our sure success is our Dare to Win Attitude.Hence start to develop the mental model of "I CAN ! and I WILL !".The Attitude of "I am Born for Achievements !" may be gained with the following

Factors : (a) Clearcut Purpose (Goal) in Life.

(b) Commitment towards the Spcific target.

(c) Dare to win Attitude(Confidence on Self) and

(d) Detailed Plan of Action.

If you have the above fundamentals of Success,you can easily overcome the expected obstacles or challenges which comes on your way towards the Goal.

As per the Quote by Henry Ford "Whether You Think You Can or Can't, You're Right",

Our beliefs or our mental models matters a lot in our efforts to won the target. If you believe that something is impossible,then you can't create the commitment required for making it in to a reality.Therefore if you want to create history,like Lingoln,Gandhi,Tresa,Vivekananda,Wilma Rudalf,Charle Chaplin,etc., Please spare your attention towards finding a BURNING URGE in your mind for creating an I Can ! and I Will !"approach in your Belief System to make you Stroger and Stronger to be persistent enough to face the Challenges in the path of Great Achievements,Laurels,Success and Leadership.

A Valuable Quote of Swami Vivekananda

Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life - think of it, dream of it, live on idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success.

Follow the above message throughout your Life

Gain utmost Self Confidence.

Consider all Obstacles as Power Generators.

Reach the TOP OF THE WORLD

Wish You all the very Best .

Your's

Dr.R.MOHAN KUMAR.,

Professor and Head.,

Department of Management Studies.,

Francis Xavier Engineering College.,

Tirunelveli.Tamilnadu.