Thursday, June 25, 2009

Effective Parenting

Success of any human being is based on the kind of mindset possessed by him or her. The mindset of individual is based on the experiences gained by children in socialization throughout their childhood.Socialization of children is influenced by the parenting method of their parents, experiences given by their neighbors, religious leaders, relatives and other stakeholders in the society.Among the influences, the influence of parents is crucial in the behavioral molding process of children. Through your way of rearing you can either mold children with Negative Mental Attitude (NMA)or mold with Positive Mental Attitude(PMA).People with NMA are moving towards mediocrity and those with PMA are heading in the direction of Success, laurels,and achievements.Ergo, Parents should consider the following points in the method of parenting they are using to rear their children.
1. Love your Children unconditionally.
2.Teach them positive values through Role Modeling.
3.Use Positive Motivation Techniques to improve them.
4.Avoid Complaining children.
5.Avoid Hitting , Canning, Pinching, and all other kinds of inhuman punishments.
6.Avoid comparing your children with other children.
7.Don't destruct the soft natured mind of children with your continuous
ridicules, or complaints or comparisons or scolding ,etc.,
8.Give them maximum positive strokes, like appreciation , recognition, etc.,
9.Give them QUALITY TIME for ensuring a positive environment to mould a
better mental make up.
Friends as Swamy Vivekanda rightly said "IF YOU WANT TO GIVE SOME THING TO YOUR CHILDREN ; LET IT BE SELF CONFIDENCE"
Wish You all the Best for a Great Successful Parent.